Not happy in your current situation? Are you stuck in a rut, just plodding along, hoping for the economy to change or for someone to make things better for you?...
Are you laying blame on other things or people for your situation? Is it the landlords fault, is it your customers fault, is it the governments fault?
There are certain things we can't control, it will either hail or shine tomorrow, there is nothing we can do to change that. What you CAN control and can change, is how you RESPOND to it, how you think about it, how you feel about it, and what ACTION you take as a result.
For things to change, first you must change your internal dialogue, how you think about the situation you are having challenge with, and what you literally say to yourself about it.
Language and the words you choose are extremely powerful. The pen is mightier than the sword! People can be moved deeply with words, can be influenced to take action, can be motivated or broken down. So be careful what you say to yourself. Don't say "it can't be done" say " if there was a way, how CAN it be done?" Don't say "things are really tough, no one is spending money" say "let's see what we can do to stimulate more sales, entice people to book in for a treatment or motivate them to buy the product"
I learned from Tony Robbins to soften negative words I say to myself, and power up positive words I say to myself. For example instead of saying " I feel awful" I say "I feel a little unwell" or " I am not fussed with that" instead of saying " I hate that!" the words you use program the way you think and feel about it. You do have a choice every time you choose your words. Say, "that is just awesome!!" instead of saying "that is nice", power up your positive words, it puts you in a totally different mindset!
For things to change you need to break your negative state, snap out of it as they say, start looking for solutions, AND TAKE IMMEDIATE ACTION!
As Anthony Robbins said: The path to success is to take MASSIVE, DETERMINED ACTION.
There are certain things we can't control, it will either hail or shine tomorrow, there is nothing we can do to change that. What you CAN control and can change, is how you RESPOND to it, how you think about it, how you feel about it, and what ACTION you take as a result.
For things to change, first you must change your internal dialogue, how you think about the situation you are having challenge with, and what you literally say to yourself about it.
Language and the words you choose are extremely powerful. The pen is mightier than the sword! People can be moved deeply with words, can be influenced to take action, can be motivated or broken down. So be careful what you say to yourself. Don't say "it can't be done" say " if there was a way, how CAN it be done?" Don't say "things are really tough, no one is spending money" say "let's see what we can do to stimulate more sales, entice people to book in for a treatment or motivate them to buy the product"
I learned from Tony Robbins to soften negative words I say to myself, and power up positive words I say to myself. For example instead of saying " I feel awful" I say "I feel a little unwell" or " I am not fussed with that" instead of saying " I hate that!" the words you use program the way you think and feel about it. You do have a choice every time you choose your words. Say, "that is just awesome!!" instead of saying "that is nice", power up your positive words, it puts you in a totally different mindset!
For things to change you need to break your negative state, snap out of it as they say, start looking for solutions, AND TAKE IMMEDIATE ACTION!
As Anthony Robbins said: The path to success is to take MASSIVE, DETERMINED ACTION.
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